Another form of verbal abuse is ordering.
When one person in a relationship orders or demands another person to do something, he or she is telling his or her partner he or she should be ready at any moment to meet his or her needs, desires, and wants. Furthermore, the abuser denies his partner the right to make his or her own choices.
Here are a few examples of ordering statements:
-Clean that up.
-Take the trash out, now!
-We are not going to discuss this any longer.
-You're not going out of the house looking like that!